So, my sister is at it again. She brought two of her friends in the apartment when my grandparents weren't here. The only person that was around was my mother(who seems to be in her own little world some times), and she doesn't pay attention to her. My uncle just happen to come by and visit. He told my grandparents about this.

Now let me first off establish that my sister isn't allowed to have company in the house when my grandparents are home. What makes her think this is ok? Of course her mother just goes along with this, disobeying her own parent's rules and to top it all off they're playing my Wii. Now, If they had gotten permission from me and I was sitting in the room with them it wouldn't have been a problem(things tend to mysteriously come up broken when she's alone). My mother does absolutely nothing about this! I'm at a loss, and it's getting to the point where I'm starting to resent my own mother. She lets her teenage(14) daughter run wild, but bites anyone's head off(particularly mine) when they try to talk to her about it. It's my game(I bought it), I have a right to demand it stay untouched at home, especially when there are a bunch of unsupervised delinquent children around!

Of course when my grand parents get wind of they they bawl my sister out, then the immediately storms out of the house slamming both doors and call my mother and tell her whatever twisted story she pleases because lets face it Michelle can do no wrong. Now this child has been out of school since January because she's been fighting with some other kids. That's her mother's excuse. I guess we(my grandparents and I) pester her enough so that she finally stops making excuses and registers her into another school(less tolerant than the last one), this all happens last week. She's been running the streets(hanging out where ever she wants, when ever she wants, with who ever she wants) for several months now. And she's showing obvious signs that she's forgetting whatever she was taught, not that she was a top student, she earned 4 or 5 F's last semester.

I'm really at a loss, I'm her eldest child, yet she still tries to keep me on a short leash. I can't disrespect her, she's my mother. Unlike my sister, I do respect my elders. However when I(or anyone) try to discuss my sister with my mother, she immediately dismisses us for whatever reason. Now she's uber religious, though sometime I feel she picks and chooses what she wants to follow(the bible does teach the importance of disciplining a child), that's all she wants to do. Read her bible, and watch the church channel. It's like she's completely not in touch with reality and her poor parents, who shouldn't have to worry about an unruly child have to deal with that monster she created. I just don't know what to do, it's so frustrating that it makes me break down in tears and I get so stressed that it makes me sick. I want a relationship with my mother, but this is just not working out. I'm well aware that I most likely will be her caretaker when she gets older and I don't want to resent her. I've been praying, and I know it's all in God's hands, but I'm afraid of my sister getting raped again, pregnant, or even killed out in the street with her so called "friends". My mother doesn't even take the time to meet her friends, or find out where they live/getting their number before letting her spend the night, or even checks to see if she's really going where she say she is(she lies a lot).

I believe my sister needs therapy, the has a lot of issues that have been left unchecked. We both had the same abusive father, but I went to therapy and came out better for it. She's had all of this bottled inside her. I figure that this lashing out may have something to do with it. I told my mom to get her into therapy when she fell victim to being raped, but still nothing. I don't want my sister to get taken away by social services, I'm beginning to suspect her previous school may start some kind of investigation, because she was never checked out of her previous school, she just stopped attending and with all of the stuff going on, I doubt whoever the case worker is will have a problem taking my sister away.

It bothers me, it bothers me so much I get sick and can't concentrate. I just don't know what to do, talking to her mother doesn't work, and talking to my sister doesn't work. My grandparent's don't deserved to be punished because their daughter can't control her unruly child.

When it rains it poors...There are so many things going wrong in my family and we're all trying to pull through it together. Today my youngest sister who is twelve years old was raped on her way home from school. This hurt me so badly when she told me, my other sister and younger cousin were also raped. I'm just glad that she came home ok, and told us. My other sister waited until 4 year later to tell us what happened. Anyway she's at Santa Monica hospital now and there doing tests on her right now. My mother just when with my other sister to meet her there. What sick person would do this to a child? Words of comfort would be much appreciated from her and from me. At least she came home alive. I hope the catch the sick bastards that held her down and the bastard that raped her. I hope to God they didn't seriously hurt her. I know we'll pull though this together.